The Role of Love with Paul Zolman

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Key Points & Memorable Quotes

“Is it me in this relationship that is causing this problem?” 7:43

“If they ask for advice, I can offer advice, but they have to ask or I have to be given permission.” 15:59

“Whatever you send out, eventually is going to come right back to you.” 18:44

“Instead of having something to be angry about, and holding onto that, hold on to the things that are good about people.” 21:19

“You’re not going to make any progress by blaming someone else.” 30:24

“Love in the way that’s going to light people up.” 35:25

“These women will take care of you if you take care of them.” 41:53

Guest Bio

Paul Zolman is the international bestselling author of the Role of Love, but the true author of love is God. In His wisdom, He placed us in a variety of circumstances that require us to find our way back to His pure love. So, what qualifies me to speak about love? My childhood experience of the opposite of love. From that austere beginning, and the distaste it formed inside me, I searched for and eventually created a method that transformed my life from anger to loving everyone. Growing up in a family of abuse, physical touch became my preferred love style, only because of the regularity. I could almost count on it. It was consistent. I came to think that was the way to express love. But deep inside, I knew that was a twisted belief. I wanted a better life for myself, which is why I created a paradigm shift that works. In this book, you’ll find what helped me move from a childhood boot camp of abuse to being a person who loves everyone and can find good about anyone in any circumstance. This is truly the role of love. I hope you join me.

Show Notes

0:00 - Welcoming Paul Zolman to What I Meant to Say

0:19 - Becoming a Love Language Linguist from An Angry Household

9:35 - How to Play Paul’s Love Language Game

16:26 - What Have You Learned from First to Second Marriage?

19:59 - Practical Ways You Relate to Your Kids & Grandkids

23:44 - Are There Ways to Protect Yourself from Being Taken Advantage Of?

27:46 - Best Ways to Have a Generational Healing Conversation with Kids

33:48 - The Purpose of the Love Language Game

40:06 - Advice for Men to Be Love in the World

42:43 - One Piece of Advice to Your Younger Self

46:27 - Where Can People Find You?