Most men make decisions by asking, "What's the smartest choice?" But what if your decisions aren't just problems to solve, they're training for something you haven't been shown yet?
In this episode, I walk through three real decisions I'm facing right now — an investment property, relationship priorities for a family of nine, and whether to compete in a BJJ tournament against my doctor's advice — and why I stopped treating them as problems and started treating them as formation.
I break down the difference between how most men approach decisions and how an aspiring elder thinks about them, and I introduce a framework I've been developing that changes not just what you decide, but what your decisions are actually for.
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CHAPTERS
00:00 - Welcome & The Challenge of Decision Making
01:00 - Example 1: Investment Property Decision
03:25 - Example 2: Family Time & Relationships
04:53 - Example 3: BJJ Tournament vs Doctor's Advice
05:30 - How Most Men Make Decisions
06:36 - A Different Operating System for God-Fearing Men
08:49 - The Elder's Questions vs Common Questions
12:16 - Decisions as Training for Kingdom Responsibility
15:19 - Applying the Framework to Real Decisions
17:33 - The Elder's Decision Making Framework (Free Guide)
19:40 - Being More Than a "Good Dad"
21:15 - Closing & Call to Action
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