This month’s theme is all about representation in LGBTQIA+ History Month. This month’s theme is all about representation in LGBTQIA+ History Month. This week, we are talking about transitioning in families. To join me in doing this is the wonderful Cath Lloyd.
If you enjoyed this episode, then consider subscribing on Apple podcast, Spotify or wherever you access your podcasts from.
Cath is the author of ‘When Dad Became Joan’, about her journey starting in 1987, when her dad made the shocking confession that he wished to become a woman. It’s her story of how, for many years, she fought against her dad’s gender reassignment.
In the book, Cath opens her heart to show the conflicts she finally managed to conquer. Through the years of emotional, conflicting, and tormenting thought processes, Cath wondered if life would ever feel normal again. She is an expert in supporting those struggling to release the pain of loss and flourish through change.
She says we all have a story about coming to terms with change, whether this is transgender reassignment, separation, loss, illness, disability, or living through another trauma. As we live through our story we do the best we can with the strategies we have at our disposal. Sometimes these are not enough and we have to search long and hard to find alternatives.
Cath was an adult education teacher working in a male prison, there she learned how to see the other side of the story. To see the exception to the rule, that life isn’t always clear cut. Life is constantly changing sometimes for the better and at other times there needs to be a period of adjustment.
We have to learn how to adjust and start living a new normal. In 2017 Cath’s son broke his neck and is now tetraplegic meaning that he only has movement from his shoulders upwards. What I learned from my long bereavement cycle of change and loss for her Dad really helped her manage her thoughts and feelings around the drastic lifestyle change for my son and we as a family had to adjust to.
The strategies I ultimately used, I teach today to help families and those living with the bereavement cycle of change and loss so they can come out the other side smiling and with warmth in their hearts.
Have a look at my online work-life balance course on Thinkific. You can access it here: http://bit.ly/DMMHPONC
Complete the form to discuss your training needs: https://forms.gle/hgnYtmTu33Zeem489
Check out my FAQs here: http://diverseminds.co.uk/solutions/coaching/
You can learn more about the coaching I do to support your wellbeing here.
If you enjoyed this episode, then consider subscribing on Apple podcast, Spotify or wherever you access your podcasts from.
If you enjoyed it, why not leave a review?
You can also connect with me on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn.
Remember to tune in next week, where I’ll bring you more insights on mental health and inclusion.
