In this episode I interview my soul sista Rani Darby. Rani is a wife, a mum, a queen, goddess, and a feminine change maker! Rani offers aromatic healing, soul modes mentoring and cyclic awareness for women. In this episode we unpack the transformation of the mother, soul modes and why you need to understand your cycles, and how to be your true authentic self without any apologies.
We discuss the transformation of the mother as a journey back to yourself as a 'shattering' experience that breaks down illusions. How profound and chaotic the transition from maiden to mother really is. How to intuitively mother your children as well as mothering yourself. Spending time with people that are aligned to you and how powerful that can really be. Giving yourself permission to feel what you need to feel without spiritual bypassing and toxic positivity.
We discuss the Ego and how this breaks down becoming a mother. How important your mum friends are, and that unless you have gone through this transition yourself, you just really don't get the transformation experience. Becoming a mother is an initiation process that women need more support with.
We talk parenting styles, crunchy and natural parenting. Being innate and trusting your own intuition as well as your own kids intuition to lead your parenting choices. How important it is to take responsibility for your choices as a parent.
Rani explains soul modes and how important understanding your cycles will change your life and your relationships. Soul modes exists within you as a woman. We are cyclic beings. Carlie Maree discovered soul modes.
Soul Modes is the belief that we have 4 cycles within us and the cycles transition as your cup is filled.
The first cycle is Wild mode she is all about invoking change in your life, she has your best interest in mind and she wants you to go after everything that you want.
Bear mode is about going deep and silencing the outside world, this is like the reflective phase.
Super is all about getting the shit done. She ticks off the to do list, she creates the meal plans and has all the energy.
Sparkle is embracing your inner fairy, she is grateful and present, she is feminine and loving and creative.
And then the phases go through again. Understanding these cycles you can give yourself permission to fill up these multiple cups as you need to. Surrender to your cycles and your life will change so much! Let go of any shame or guilt over what YOU need to fill up your cup!
Men listen to this episode! Your relationship will transform!
We talk sisterhood and how important that is for women.
To connect with Rani check her out on all her socials
https://www.facebook.com/ranidarby/?ref=py_c
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To get in contact with me check out my site
https://www.pixiesteps.com.au/
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