“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.” Proverbs 22:6
Teaching our children how to manage God’s money is vital to raising them. But how can parents do this well? Brian Holtz will share some great insights today.
Brian Holtz is the Chief Operating Officer at Compass Financial Ministry and the author of Financial Discipleship for Families: Intentionally Raising Faithful Children.
Introducing MVP Parenting, a concept foundational for nurturing financial wisdom and spiritual growth in our children. Howard Dayton defines MVP as Modeling, Verbal Instruction, and Practical Opportunities. This approach helps parents effectively teach their kids crucial life skills and values.
As parents, our actions speak louder than words. Modeling means demonstrating behaviors that our children can observe and learn from. If your child wants to learn how to pray, they need to see you praying, not just hear about it. Children are always watching and absorbing our behaviors, whether intentional or not. They learn how we handle money, attitudes, and financial habits. Therefore, it's essential to model the right behavior visibly.
Providing verbal instruction involves explaining actions in a way that children can understand. For instance, after praying or reading the Bible, explain to your children why you do it. Without explanation, they might create their own reasons, which could be far from the truth. Similarly, when giving money at church, explain why you do it. This helps them understand the purpose behind your actions and prevents misunderstandings.
Practical opportunities invite children to engage and try things for themselves. It's not enough for them to see and understand; they must practice under supervision. For example, involve them in simple financial tasks appropriate for their age, allowing them to apply what they've observed and learned.
This MVP approach is not limited to parenting young children; it works with adult children and even in professional settings. When working with clients, encourage them to document their experiences and prepare their wealth for the next generation. Challenge them to apply the MVP principles to teach their children financial stewardship.
In a corporate setting, this might look like mentoring a junior team member by letting them observe your presentations, explaining the outcomes, and gradually involving them in the process. Similarly, parents can apply these principles to raise financially wise children by providing a vision for the family’s wealth and decisions.
A clear family vision is crucial. It defines why you exist, why the wealth has been entrusted to you, and why you make certain decisions. Core values and a family vision ensure that everyone understands the purpose behind their actions. Just like a book's value depends on its purpose, a family's success in stewardship depends on defining what that means for them.
By integrating these principles, families can nurture financial wisdom and spiritual growth, ensuring that the next generation is well-prepared to be good stewards of their resources.
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