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This week I am spearheading a LOADED conversation with Lauren LaRusso About ROMANTIC AFFAIRS 😐
We are here to talk about all the things that no one wants to talk about… and we are going to answer the questions that have probably crossed your mind when it comes to ROMANTIC AFFAIRS.
Lauren is a psychotherapist specializing in marital affairs. She has helped countless individuals and couples process the unexpected and inalterable impact of infidelity on their lives. Let’s jump right in!
In this episode…
Quotes
“As betrayed spouses, we become complicit sometimes because we adjust our expectations based on the slow creep of changes in our partner.” - Lauren LaRusso
“As humans, we always want what we can’t have.” - Lauren LaRusso
“You have to be hyper vigilant for yourself. You need to be connected and in tune to yourself enough to be looking outside and sending the signals of unavailability of loyalty to your primary relationship.” - Lauren LaRusso
“I would recommend handling your shit as soon as you possibly can.” - Lauren LaRusso
“I think that the affair itself removes the power of choice for the person who doesn’t know about it.” - Nikki Spo
Timestamps:
0:00 - 6:00 | Intro
6:00 - 9:40 | Does everyone have a role in affairs?
9:40 - 11:15 | Inflection points
11:15 - 15:00 | Laurens background
15:00 - 18:20 | Shame, silence, & secrecy
18:20 - 19:40 | Ethical or consensual non monogamy
19:40 - 22:15 | Secrecy can be enticing
22:15 - 27:30 | The main reasons affairs occur
27:30 - 32:55 | The betrayed spouse
32:55 - 36:00 | Can marriages be saved after affairs?
36:00 - 38:00 | How do we get to being happy?
38:00 - 41:05 | Making a choice for YOURSELF
41:05 - 43:50 | Forgiveness & unavailability
43:50 - 46:45 | Being strung along
46:45 - 49:25 | The power of choice
49:25 - 51:35 | Honesty & integrity
51:35 - 54:30 | People who stay in their marriages
54:30 - 57:11 | Outro
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Connect with Lauren
https://www.laurenlarusso.com/ / https://laurenlarusso.substack.com/
Connect with Nikki
@nikkisappspo / @theknowwithnikkispo
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