Nancy shares how being a single mom, starting a business, and caring for her sick grandmother forced her to ask, “What matters most right now?” and to choose capacity over hustle for the sake of her mental health and nervous system. Marv offers his own framework from a Lou Holtz story—WIN: “What’s Important Now”—and explains how that guides his choices when work collides with caring for his mom and other family responsibilities. The conversation becomes a real-time example of prioritizing stress management, emotional health, and boundaries over non-stop productivity.
Takeaways
- You can’t take care of everyone else if you never put your own “oxygen mask” on first.
- It’s okay—and sometimes necessary—to step back from business growth and focus on survival and capacity.
- “What’s Important Now” is a powerful filter for making decisions when work and family collide.
- Listening to your body when it demands rest is a crucial health habit.
- Unresolved grief and fear of loss can keep you stuck in unhealthy partnerships and coping strategies.
- It’s possible to look back on hard decisions without regret, recognizing that you did the best you could with what you knew.
- Part of healing is growing your capacity to hold more without collapsing—emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
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