In Part 2 of a two-part series on relationships, Chase Amante talks monogamy (and all the wrinkles that go along with it) with host Varoon Rajah.
Selected topics of conversation…
* Is monogamy the natural setting for a relationship? (1:20)
* Whether society programs us for monogamy or it is an intrinsic drive (3:47)
* How media supports or invalidates feelings about monogamy (5:07)
* Have the sex roles become less clear in modern society? (6:42)
* The value of clearly delineated roles within a relationship (7:20)
* Some of the differences of monogamy in other cultures (8:00)
* Why it’s important for a man to know what he wants in a partner (9:55)
* How power subtly shifts inside relationships (11:14)
* How to resist a girl’s efforts to escalate a relationship (12:31)
* How can you determine what a girl wants with you early on? (14:26)
* Do women actually know what they want with you? (16:41)
* Why to look for what makes her UN-happy around you (17:46)
* If she isn’t happy or doesn’t want what you do, should you end it? (18:27)
* Why it’s bad for a woman to settle for you (22:20)
* Why it’s critical to have a purpose for your relationship (23:21)
* How supplication creates more problems instead of solving them (24:21)
* Why it’s so important to have firm boundaries (26:44)
* The crux of a healthy relationship: involving her without yielding to her (31:11)
* What does dominance-submission looks like in a relationship? (34:09)
* How dominance factors into the role of provider (35:35)
* Does every woman have the capacity to submit? (39:05)
* What shared purposes are there for relationships? (43:28)
* How to create a mutual purpose in a relationship (46:11)
* Examples of strained relationships without mutual purpose (48:45)
* Do men and women sometimes put on early faces that change later? (51:03)
* How to handle the “false face” problem (52:55)
* Other emotions or lack of emotions that emerge in relationships (55:29)
... plus 30 more minutes of podcast interview.
Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-12-chase-amante
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