Hector Castillo discusses social circle game, meeting women at university, and what it's like to work in nightlife with host Varoon Raja.
Selected topics of conversation...
• How social circle functions as an exchange of value (1:48)
• Why reputation matters when she choose whom to sleep with (4:55)
• The ‘tabula rasa effect’: how being new will often get you laid (5:51)
• Reputation as a ‘tandem bike’ - both parties reap rewards and punishments (6:22)
• Once you’re on top, can you stay the king of the hill? (8:55)
• Where the ‘player’ fits into social circle and what his rules are (9:22)
• ‘Players’ hooking up lots versus ‘alphas’ taking hot girlfriends (9:57)
• Why there are no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ reputations in social circle (11:40)
• What kinds of value you can provide in social circle (13:13)
• How to use the attention you receive from others (15:03)
• Why reputation serves as precedent (17:44)
• Why most popular guys are so ‘chill’ and how to be it (18:36)
• Questions girls can have when they see men with reputations (19:30)
• The trap of being liked for the sake of being liked (20:38)
• Personalities of the cool-but-introverted types (22:04)
• How women collect intel and scout men (23:21)
• Keeping your image vs. trying to excel your image (25:58)
• Risks of not sticking to your reputation once built (28:10)
• Why you be touching much more (32:10)
• How do men improve with women and when to start (34:36)
• Recommendations for men currently in college (36:28)
• How nightclubs differ from college game (37:20)
• Benefits of working in the nightlife industry (38:56)
Listen online: www.girlschase.com/content/girls-chase-podcast-interviews-ep-7-hector-castillo
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