In 2020 I met a woman who, at the time, was the love of my life. At the turn of 2021 she became my gf I cheated on her and she found out about it months after we broke up. She scolded and ridiculed me for over a year while I tried to get her back. Eventually, I learned my lesson. Sometimes, when you break someones heart then, even if they "give you the chance" to treat them correctly, they could still feel entitled to hurt you back out of spite. The changes you make are not as easily measured against who you were. After you distort someones image of you then even the sweetest action can be perceived as evil. You could, forever, be subjected to your significant other "trying to figure out what's the catch" to the most humble of attitudes and actions. Your once loved one could become an echo of the guilt and torment of your deepest self deprecating thoughts. If you start to see these attributes... run.... or let your heart be a sacrifice... and become transparent to being enslaved by the one you love most...