Today's message is inspired by the Backstreet Boys' iconic song "I Want It That Way," which topped charts globally and became a 90s anthem. The song's exploration of conflict in relationships reflects a deeper issue of selfishness that we all struggle with. In this video, we'll delve into a biblical perspective on overcoming selfishness and resolving conflicts, using Jesus' parable in Luke 12:16-21 as a guide. We'll discuss practical steps from scriptures such as Proverbs 16:32, James 1:19-21, and Hebrews 12:14-16 to help us manage our anger, seek peace, and improve our communication. By aligning our desires with God's instructions, we can experience healing and harmony in our relationships.