Forgiving and forgetting after your partner has cheated (even cyber infidelity) with Relationship expert Dudu Nhlabathi . Conflict is inevitable in any relationship, the secret to making sure that it does not end with broken hearts is to fight in a fair manner with your loved one. When love works, it can be the most beautiful thing in the world, but unlike in the movies and the fairy tales most of us grew up watching, love requires a lot of work, dedication and sacrifice.