I have so much truth in my head; I struggle with speaking it in love. So what good is it to know all this "stuff" if I choose not to communicate it in love. I'd be better off to keep my mouth shut, confess my sin, repent, then speak the truth with grace and mercy. If you're like me, can relate. You know exactly what's wrong with your spouse, but you can't seem to speak the truth in love. It's time my friend. It's time to get yourself surrounded in Christ-centered community and figure out whats at the root of that evil hypocritical behavior.
