Let's face it, happiness is the single most illusive and yet, most important state of mind a human being can aspire to. Happy means what? Laughing all the time? Cheerful? Upbeat? I doubt any of these are the real happiness we seek. Most important is that we can only really be happy when we perceive that we are safe. That can mean shaking hands with the devil at times. We must also perceive the future is good and we are, at some level, going to be better tomorrow than we are today. The list goes on, but that's the real mission of a life coach, to destroy darkness, to light the path and take you from one to the other.