Ever feel like you are always the one mending things or being the example for others? Like some of your friendships or relationships wouldn’t be friendships or relationships if you stopped driving the ship? Is it hard to want to bring peace with your enemies? As women, we want to feel protected, even in our friendships. We want to know that the love is mutual and the friendship is solid. Once we feel like we are not being protected, we can be really resentful and we do not like being the peacemakers. Don’t worry, you’re not alone. I have felt like that too and to be honest, I still feel that way towards some people. Some situations take more time than others. I’m still working on it, but for the most part, I’ve learned a more biblical perspective that I have been applying to my life and I want to share it with you. Not only will this help in your friendships, but it will also help in your future courtship and marriage as well.