I would take it easy if it wasn't always 'that's not him', 'that's him', 'he's not that', 'I know', 'we know', 'nobody does that', everyone does this', 'you should do this', 'it's something', 'you're that if you do this', 'you're this if you do that', dogs, birds, God, my neighbors, the lady at the grocery store, etc...
I would take it easy if you would get a life.