Your woman’s deepest need is ____________________.
“Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for it.” Ephesians 5:25; Hebrews 12:2; Proverbs 16:25
The Crazy Cycle:
She shows ______________ and __________…He reacts in ways that
seem ______________… escalates her ________________ and
__________…escalates ways that seems __________…to infinity and beyond.
Galatians 5:15
God holds the __________ responsible to stop the crazy cycle!
1. ____________ with her – move ____________ your wife,
not ____________ from her.
“So a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife, and the two will become one body.” Genesis 2:24
Deuteronomy 24:5
2. __________ your heart’s door to her.
“The one I love was at the door, knocking and saying, ‘My darling, my very own, my flawless dove, open the door for me!’ ”
Song of Solomon 5:2
“Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them.” Colossians 3:19
3. Be _______________ with her – notice I didn’t say
_______________ her.
“Live with your wives in an understanding way…” 1 Peter 3:7
Do you need a __________ or a __________ ear?
4. ____________________________ – she needs to know you
are _______________. Ephesians 5:25
2 Critical questions for husbands:
Is my wife coming across to me _______________ because she is
feeling __________?
Will what I say or do next come across as __________ or
_______________ to my wife?
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