You were created for this hour. If you are born again, the life of God dwells inside you. Jesus told His disciples that it was better for them (and you) that He went away, but that He would not leave them (or you) as orphans. The Father's love that poured through Jesus to others would fill their hearts by another Comforter -- the Holy Spirit. Why was the Holy Spirit sent? To raise up Fathers for His flock. Love wants the best for others. Brothers can be competitive and insecure. Fathers over the flock want their sons to excel. Are you allowing God to produce and develop His fatherly spirit of love in you?