How do you use your "niceness" in a strategically offensive way? And I don't mean offensive as in offending people, but offensive as in you going and making things happen through your niceness and not achieving things that you want to achieve through helping other people achieve things they want to achieve.
Point #1 13:29 it is easier to get people to help yoou and cooperate with you when they like you than when they hate you
Point #2 16:55 when you push people they push back
Point #3 25:14 you are a hustler playing the game
Recap 30:53
