Hello Beautiful, I am Haley Helveston a Holistic Health Coach turned Sex/Relationship Coach. I am all about empowering you sexually, spiritually and in your health.
Today I had the pleasure of interviewing Melissa Louise, a Sex Educator. She is also a Speaker, Author, and Pleasure Advocate.
Key Takeaways -
- Our society is lacking pleasure
-Pleasure helps you shift out of the flight or fight mode
-Sex is why you are here! It is the core of our education
- Sex education is fear based and does not mention pleasure at all
- Woman are having sex too soon. You have to do more foreplay
-Women are ready for sex when she is begging for her lover
- Men need to ask their partner what she needs
- Boundaries are non - negotiable
-There is nothing wrong with you and you do not need to be fixed
- Lube is not needed when you are more turned on
- Sex Magic - works if you try it! Self Pleasure and focus only on what you want
- The book, Think and Grow Rich mentions it too
-Self Pleasure more
- We need to discuss sex more in our society and with our partners
- Go all in with one person
-Adore each other and make sure the relationship feels safe for both people
- Women need more boundaries = what do you want and what do you need
- Orgasm is not the goal - pleasure is the goal
- Sex is a place you go to not an act
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