Two men talking about fatherhood, presence, and managing expectations. This isn’t a blueprint. It’s a conversation.
Vin Infante has strong views — on work, fatherhood, therapy, homeschooling, entrepreneurship, and what it means to show up as a man. You might not agree with all of it, but that’s the point. These are the kind of conversations that surface things many won’t say out loud. Vin is a former FDNY firefighter and mental performance coach.
What We Talk About:
- Having energy (and protecting it)
- Being a dad, not just a provider
- Homeschooling and college
- Hustle culture, addiction, and why it’s hard to stop
- Tony Robbins
- Bullying, identity, and surviving dark moments
- Expectations (and how they mess with your peace)
Chapters:
- 00:44 – Morning energy and routine
- 02:05 – Presence vs. providing: parenting wake-up call
- 03:23 – Fatherhood and rejecting old models of masculinity
- 05:19 – Work-life integration and entrepreneur burnout
- 07:57 – Designing a day around health, family, and purpose
- 10:40 – School, AI, and why Vin’s homeschooling his daughter
- 15:01 – Regret and the weight of missed moments
- 20:17 – Identity roles: dad, husband, business owner
- 24:00 – Letting go of control and trusting your team
- 27:21 – Expectations, frustration, and Stoic mindset
- 30:31 – Info overload and filtering what matters
- 34:21 – Addiction, dopamine, and emotional disconnection
- 39:40 – Reading, self-reflection, and conscious change
- 40:02 – Therapy vs coaching: how Vin found his lane
- 44:18 – Long-term bullying and its lasting impact
- 51:32 – Suicidal ideation and finding reasons to stay
- 53:45 – Becoming a firefighter and trusting the process
Vin Infante
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