At some point during our lifetime, we all will be victimized. Life is inevitably filled with pain and suffering. Relationships will hurt and betray us, we will experience loss and disappointment, and life will seem unfair and often brutal. Unfortunately, we have become a society that has developed a false belief that, “once a victim, always a victim.” Many develop a victim identity that leads to an angry, bitter and helpless outlook on life, keeps others at arms-length and prevents healthy relationships. Our hurtful history becomes the justification for hurting others and not working toward a brighter future. However, there is a huge difference being having been victimized and living as a victim - we CAN heal!
In today’s podcast, Jamie talks with Michele Abraham, a fellow counselor, to examine the dangers of the victim mentality and the healing necessary to move beyond painful experiences into a restored and healthy life.