Today I speak with the one and only Ossiana Tepfenhart, who covered the adult film industry as a journalist and has written on topics from music to politics to sex. Ossiana and I discuss Lolita fashion, control freaks, and why we should not be embarrassed to appreciate a good orgasm.
REFERENCES:
Find Ossiana on Substack: https://ossiana.substack.com/
Find Ossiana on Medium: https://medium.com/@ossiana.tepfenhart
Find The Refugee Newsletter on Substack: https://therefugee.substack.com/
Gender Identity Today: https://genderidentitytoday.com/
- (00:00) - Show opening
- (00:35) - Introducing Ossiana
- (03:46) - Gender, beauty, and sexuality
- (09:01) - Unreal social expectations
- (11:27) - Ami defines gender and sexuality in 10 words or less
- (14:45) - Sex and gender are more than physical
- (18:26) - Beauty is not (always) symmetrical
- (23:26) - Scary sells...really well
- (29:28) - Sex is not a bad thing
- (33:42) - Victorian era repression
- (38:19) - Shame as a means of control
- (40:50) - Slut-shaming and society
- (45:00) - Forbidden fruit
- (48:59) - Abuse at the hands of those not getting any
- (51:43) - Show closing
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