When my dad would teach on relationships, he told a joke that was funny, sad and probably true in a lot of relationships. A woman who was asked, "When did your husband last tell you, 'I love you'?" The wife answered with "years ago!" Then they brought in her husband, and he gave exactly the same answer: "I told her that I loved her when I married her," he said, "and I also told her that if I ever changed my mind, I'd tell her that too!"