What's going on everyone? This is Steve Larsen, and you're listening to Secret MLM Hacks Radio.
Here's the real mystery. How do real MLMers like us who didn't cheat and only bug family members and friends, who want to grow a profitable home business, how do we recruit A players into our downlines and create extra incomes, yet still have plenty of time for the rest of our lives? That's the blaring question, and this podcast will give you the answer.
My name is Steve Larsen, and welcome to Secret MLM Hacks Radio. Hey, what's up everyone? Hey, I'm excited for today because we're going to talk about one of my favorite topics ever, and it's something that actually has blessed my life a lot, especially as of about six months ago.
If you don't know, on Secret MLM Hacks Radio, after you opt-in, in the bottom right there, there's a little button. It's a green button. If you click it, you can record straight from your browser a question for me about MLM, or a question to me, I mean, and I'm going to go ahead and drop one of those in now, because I think it's an important topic. This is something ... I'm not kidding, when I found this, and when I figured out how to do this, my life changed, and I'm not just saying that because, but, anyway, you'll see why. Let me play the question real quick. This is from Sarah. Sarah, I appreciate the question.
Hey, Steve. I'd love to start doing a podcast similar to yours about never having to talk to your family or friends or annoy your warm market. I love MLM but have always hated the warm market side of it, and I love your trainings. I think they're just exactly what I need. Do you think it's okay to go ahead and podcast even if I have never had any experience in this and have never had a downline or recruited anybody? Thanks very much. Bye.
Sarah, that's a fantastic question. I really appreciate you saying that. So there's this whole element to needing to find your voice to become a leader. I've never found too many leaders who don't know how to communicate, meaning they're not eloquent all of them. They're not this posh guys wearing suits all the time, like the crappy, totally fake image that Hollywood tosses on us as far as who a speaker or a salesman is or whatever. That's total garbage. I don't believe in that kind of stuff. In fact, I usually make fun of those guys and I'm like those are the guys that put way too much starch in their shirts, try and act too professional all the time, act like they were born in a tuxedo, and you're like, "Come on. No one's like that." Anyway.
So, Sarah, I'm not sure if you've ever heard of a guy named Russell Brunson, but he is the man. He's an internet marketer who talked about something called the attractive character. Now I don't think he's the one that actually came up with this concept, but this is powerful. When I first started my podcast, not this podcast. I have a second one. My first podcast, which I started about a year ago, I went through the same things that you're describing right now. I was scared to death to launch it, but I wanted to feel like I was making progress, so I actually was so scared to do it that I actually was recording episodes without launching them, and I got 17 episodes recorded, and I was interviewing all these people and I was doing all this stuff and I was just so scared to death to actually launch the thing because I was like, "Gosh, is this good enough? Is anyone actually going to listen to these things?"
I'm proud to say that that's been over a year now and there's about 60,000 downloads on it, which is awesome and it's been a lot of fun, but that didn't happen at first. Not at all. Definitely not at all. It was really interesting though. I don't know what it was. I mean I would go and for the format for every one of my podcasts and for any time I would publish anything was always this, okay, what's a story I can tell? What's a principle behind it? What's a call to action, something I want them to do, whether it's go somewhere or act on your own to do something or whatever it is, and that was the formula that I'd follow. Any time I'd communicate with my audience at all ever, whether it was a podcast, whether it was on video, or whatever, that's what I would do, and I got better and better and better and better at it, and I got better and better at ad-libbing. I mean I used to write out all my episodes word for word almost and try and act like I wasn't reading it.
Something happened though. I don't know what it was. I do now actually, but I'm almost 80 episodes into that podcast, and something happened around episode 30 or 40. My confidence changed. My voice changed. I found my voice. Rather than thinking, "Hey, how would this guy say it over here? How would that leader say it over there? How would Steve Larsen say it?" I got really, really fun because I ... meaning it became fun for me is what I'm saying because I learned to love it and podcasting starting becoming this thing that I was like, "Man, I can't wait to do my next episode," rather than this thing of anxiety. It was like, "Oh my gosh. This is cool."
I didn't know what to say at first so I started by interviewing all these other experts and so I interviewed I mean a ton of people, people that were just killing it in these different areas, and I would go ... It was a lot of fun to do it that way, and it helped me understand how they were saying things, and then I understood how to speak more about ... You know what I mean? I got confidence, and I found my voice. Now I don't necessarily mean so much ... I mean there's certainly some confidence that comes with it. There's certainly some more eloquence of the voice. The way you say things or the way you describe stuff, your own isms, your own passion points, things like that, but really what I'm saying is I found my message. With that other audience, with that other podcast, I've got a lot of followers on that podcast, and I found my message though. I found what I stand for, and that's more challenging.
So back to what I was saying about Russell Brunson, Russell, what he did is he actually created this thing called the attractive character, and what it is is that it's a formula that shows you what you need to have in order to become a followable leader, a followable character, somebody who is attractive. There's certain elements to being an attractive character. You've got to have a back story. Everybody has a back story. How did you get here? That's your back story. What was the struggles you went through? What were the things you went through that sucked? That's your back story. Number two, what are your parables, meaning what are more of the story you tell?
So you got the back story. That's like your origin story. That's where you came from, but then you've got all these parables, the isms, the stories that you tell that teach your main principles. The third one is one of the most challenging for people and that is character flaws. You need to be able to show what your character flaws are. You've got to be able to share what they are. I get frustrated sometimes. I have no problem sharing that. What's funny is Robert Kiyosaki said, and I think I actually said this in a previous episode, but man, when you get started ...
I mean, Sarah, you're going to go out and you're going to get started in this, and I'm sure you'll start podcasting. You're going to have character flaws that explode in your face that won't let you move on until you address them, which might be, hey ... Let's say that I can't get up on time. Therefore, I don't have time to actually work on my business before I do my nine to five. Therefore, I'm not going to progress until I ... That's just an example. Therefore, I'm not going to progress until I address the fact that I keep sle...
