In this conversation, Felicia Pecora shares her transformative journey from a wild childhood to a successful career in the military and policing. She discusses the challenges of navigating the 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' policy, the importance of community engagement in policing, and the mental health struggles faced by officers. Felicia emphasizes the need for vulnerability in leadership, the impact of trauma on officers, and the importance of creating a healthy work environment. She also shares insights on raising resilient children and offers advice to her younger self about staying true to one's values.