(Sorry about audio— it still was clear enough)
- Meet my brand new wife Diana....
- What does being "Trigger Proof" mean and what 3 important things learning this skill will bring you.
Just had this question and I wanted to answer.
“Hi Nima, so I’m ready and raring for next weeks overview experience and I am so ready to work through so much that’s holding me back and literally fucking up my life...
I am doing this work for me, though of course I know through working on myself, it will help transform my relationships, in particular the one with my husband. We are both so deeply stuck in our own shit and living out the drama triangle as you so wonderfully teach. We are both so triggered by one another, though personally, my awareness is growing as I continue to move through the work I need to do. He is doing some work on himself of his own, though he certainly has a long way to go.
My question is, how do I “be” in the relationship in the meantime. Your video on being on high alert and constant high anxiety so resonated with me. I am an anxious attachment (no surprise there) and my husband is a classic avoidant. We go head to head often and it’s so toxic at the moment. Though we both want to work on this.
When you are working on yourself and with a partner such as mine, how do you manage that? I remember seeing a comment you wrote on your group with regards to dealing with an avoidant personality and you said something to the effect of, give them complete space whilst you work on yourself (paraphrasing from memory).
Bring on next week (The Overview Experience). I am so ready for this!”
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