After experiencing the pain of a Trauma Bonded relationship
I didn’t feel I could EVER escape,
the shame of living a life that wasn’t authentic,
the anxiety, lack of sleep,
and the digestive disturbance of hiding behind a false self,
and doing the deep work to get to the other side,
sleeping deeply and soundly,
co-creating a relationship and family that feels like home
for the first time in my entire life….
When I see the confusing path people are led down
on the way towards healing their anxiety, depression,
and toxic relationship therapies, "Narc Abuse Forums”
from professional victims who themselves seem
Narcissistic and Psychopathic THEMSELVES,
I feel quite sad and hopeless for people.
People find well-meaning support workers like this…
and I discover they spend countless hours talking about
their childhoods and how shitty they had
it, how their partners are alcoholics and life sucks…
I mean, it feels good to vent and all,
but it sometimes feels that there aren’t enough people teaching
how HEALING is completely different than wishful thinking.
People think that reading books, listening to podcasts and
some journalling will be what helps them create a new reality.
We all want to heal.
No one wants to walk around carrying injuries and baggage that slows them down.
Because our Traumas become the lens which we view the world,
inherently everyone consciously seeks to be free from the impact of their past.
Without getting to the root of it,
we are counting on luck instead of Neuroscience, crossing our fingers
hoping for a Savior in a white coat and pills to help us with our pain and suffering.
But once you get that healing is LEARNING new skills…
to dismantle our Emotional flashbacks,
to master our Emotional Literacy…
When we truly master how to heal these Trauma Bonds to our past—
with methods based on Mind AND body, Somatic AND cognitive,
Neuroscience AND woo (gotta have a balance, baby)
Then,
Our triggers become our teachers,
conflict becomes a portal to connect,
Emotional Maturity emerges,
Relationships transform,
and Healing happens.
It’s not by chance.
We know exactly how.
By choice.
And according to my good friend Dr. Russ, who’s an MD AND Neuroscientist….
it’s NOT available at your doctor’s office.
It’s already inside of you.
When you find the right guide to help you master the language of your Nervous System,
you realize Healing is a CHOICE,
And YOU’RE the one making it.
When you’re ready to learn the difference,
follow the link below and learn how to Heal Cycles of Trauma that were here long before you were born,
and stop it from getting passed down so your children don’t have to heal from it later.
Your healing makes a difference to the entire ecosystem around you.
You’re THAT important.
See you at the perfect time.
Your guide on the side,
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When you're ready, here's what we got:
Upcoming Masterclass "SHOULD I STAY OR GO?" Live Event (Every month)
If you’re stuck in limbo, in repetitive relationship patterns, same arguments, attracting the same patterns, and you want to gain the clarity, confidence, and Courage to create secure relationships
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Dissolve your current relationship resentment, heal your attachment wounds, resolve your past and bring clarity to your next step.
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