Have you ever been in a relationship that you KNOW was/is harmful,
but you felt frozen because the pain of leaving is worse than the pain of staying?
This was the case with Lisa, one of the participants of our Breathwork and Badassery Experience.
This happens a lot in Trauma Healing work…
where people ask questions,
but they don’t really know what it is they are asking.
This is the product of dissociation.
A Nervous System that’s frozen in a historical time.
Deep down, we all want freedom,
and a sense of mutuality in our relationships…
a sense of feeling seen.
But without healing our wounds that have us stuck,
we find ourselves searching for the familiar.
Because even though the familiar might be harmful,
familiar feels safe.
Lisa’s question that you’ll see on this video was seeking some sort of resolution.
My job as the guide is to hold a reflection to people,
to help them with some accountability— and sometimes some tough love,
to help them see themselves…
And to inspire them to stop looking OUTSIDE for safety,
and find it within.
See if you can see yourself in Lisa’s shame and guilt and resentment towards herself.
The truth us, Lisa is innocent.
Like you, none of her patterns are her fault.
They ARE however, her responsibility to heal.
To do so, because of our blind spots its incumbent upon us to find guides and mentors
that won’t just validate our one sided story of victimhood,
but guides that will help us see the big picture…
not from a place of blame and shame,
but from a place of understanding.
When you do, you are able to find love and compassion towards your unconscious parts.
If you don’t, you’ll keep repeating the same process again and again,
as a lesson is repeated until it’s learned.
This is the ONLY way to break the cycle.
If you’re FINALLY ready to break this painful and exhaustive cycle so that you can find
love that is mutual, respectful, and fulfilling….
You know exactly what to do.
See you at the next perfect time.
Your guide on the side,
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