What part of you do you hate about yourself?
(Take a moment and think about it— I’m serous)
This part is what Carl Jung calls “The Shadow.”
We all have one.
Those parts of us that have us say:
“I can’t show you the real me, because if I did, there’s no way you
would accept me”.
Some of us hide from those parts,
some of us stuff them down (called “repression”)
and others just plain pretend they don’t exist.
The problem is, we all want relationship that feel safe and secure,
but if we are consciously or unconsciously running away from these parts of ourselves,
SAFE AND SECURE RELATIONSHIPS BECOME IMPOSSIBLE.
Because while we conceal these parts of us so that we can make sure
we aren’t rejected…
We block INTIMACY.
The thing we want deeply more than anything…
To be seen, and loved for who we are…
Yet it’s the thing that terrifies us the most.
What a Mind F*** isn’t it.
The “Universal Conundrum” that blocks healthy relationships from happening.
If we don’t figure out how to resolve this conundrum,
we keep finding ourselves with insecure attachments,
repeating the same patterns,
constantly feeling rejected and abandoned again and again,
wondering why we feel so “unlucky in love.”
And the truth is— the relationships we have outside of us are just reflections
of the relationships we are having with our Shadow Parts.
When you finally learn how to “integrate” and unify with those parts,
learn how to dance with that “Dark Passenger” and master the art
of empathic communication and releasing of old wounds,
a sense of power and freedom emerges,
and you become magnetic.
Confidence comes through,
Relationship anxiety DISSOLVES,
and you no longer settle for being treated like shit,
because you now feel worthy of respect.
No matter how much therapy one does,
it will feel like going around in circles
if you don’t learn how to integrate your shadow (What I love to call your “Dark Passenger”)
If you’re wanting to learn how to create authentic relationships
and feel safe in your body,
calm, confident, and be able to finally learn how to let go of the crap that doesn’t serve you,
the first step is to jump into our next event and learn this magnificent new art of
Dancing with Your "Dark Passenger”,
or if you’re truly serious and want to collapse time and get guidance
on how it’s done, guiding you through the (sometimes ) scary process and go all-in,
apply to train with our #Cyclebreakers Community and apply to be in our container.
When you learn how to dance with your dark side (instead of exhausting yourself by constantly running away
from half of yourself),
your life will never be same.
See you at the next perfect time,
Your guide on the side.
Nima
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