Telling your partner was Episode 4. This time it’s everyone else. Sam and Grayson go wider on coming out — to your parents, your kids, your friends, your coworkers — and the harder question beneath it all: should you come out at all? They cover the factors that actually matter (timing, community, safety, employment, custody), share their own stories and get practical: in-person vs. text, scripting it, and bracing for the questions and biphobia that may follow. Plus a listener email, the Word of the Week on romantic orientation, and a mini-topic: what would you tell your younger self?
Heads up: 18+, adults only.
Disclaimer: The hosts aren’t medical or mental-health professionals. Nothing here is medical, legal, or psychological advice — speak with a qualified provider about your own health and relationships.
Word of the Week: heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic — who you’re romantically drawn to (a different gender / the same gender / more than one), which can differ from who you’re sexually attracted to.
Other terms
Coming-out support & resources
Podcasts mentioned
Mini-topic: What would you tell your younger self? Email us yours — about your bi journey or anything else!
Next episode: jack-off clubs — how they work, why they’re a low-impact entry point for exploring your bisexuality, and some stories. Join us.
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