In this episode, Ken Freire explore why feedback often feels less like help and more like a personal attack, especially for young professionals who deeply care about doing meaningful work. Ken unpacks how our reaction to feedback reveals where our identity is rooted, and why a fragile, performance-based identity makes correction feel threatening. He introduces the idea of a biblically resilient mindset—one grounded in identity in Christ rather than achievement—and challenges listeners to receive feedback as formation, not condemnation.
Timestamps
- 00:00–01:35 – Why feedback immediately triggers anxiety and defensiveness
- 01:36–02:37 – The false belief: feedback is the problem, not me
- 02:38–03:55 – How feedback reveals identity, not just performance
- 03:56–05:28 – Performance-based identity and why failure feels personal
- 05:29–06:41 – Why resilient mindset matters for God-honoring work
- 06:42–08:07 – Identity, security, and what true biblical resilience is
- 08:08–09:18 – Taking feedback as information, not condemnation
- 09:19–11:13 – Reflection question and setup for the next episode on resilience
