In this deeply personal and redemptive conversation, Ken Freire sits down with Adam Westlake, a biblical counselor, to explore a Gospel-centered approach to same-sex attraction (SSA) and LGBTQ identity.
Adam vulnerably shares his own story of growing up in West Texas, wrestling with his identity, and finding true healing through Christ, community, and biblical counseling.
Whether you’re in Nashville, TN, or anywhere in the world, this episode offers powerful encouragement and practical steps for those struggling with sexual sin, identity confusion, or shame.
📌 Key Topics Covered:
- Adam’s journey from hiding same-sex attraction to walking in the light
- The difference between experience and identity
- How shame and silence grow without Gospel-centered community
- Why sexuality is often a search for connection, validation, or healing
- How Jesus satisfies our deepest longings as the Bread of Life
- The role of the church in counseling and loving those with SSA
- Common lies people believe when struggling with sexual identity
- Reframing disordered desires through God's redemptive story
💡 Practical Takeaways:
- Name the struggle: Bring your sin or confusion into the light with someone trustworthy.
- Seek connection: Shame dies in community; isolation only feeds the struggle.
- Confess early: Don’t wait until you fall—share what’s going on before the sin.
- Feed on Christ: Only Jesus can truly satisfy the deep spiritual hunger in all of us.
- You’re not alone: Many believers silently wrestle with SSA—freedom begins with honesty.
Powerful Quotes:
“I had to learn that I wasn’t that different… and that was actually a really good thing.” – Adam Westlake
“We don’t need less hunger. We need the right Bread.” – Adam Westlake
“It’s not about subtracting sin, it’s about living with purpose and mission.” – Ken Freire
Guest Bio:
Adam Westlake is a biblical counselor, worship leader, and producer who spent over a decade creating music with The Worship Initiative alongside Shane & Shane. Based in Texas, Adam now counsels individuals through his ministry, helping them reframe personal struggles through the lens of God’s larger redemptive story.
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