What do you do when your worst nightmare becomes reality—and God doesn’t step in the way you hoped?
In this episode of the Shameless Podcast, Ken Freire sits down with Davey Blackburn, founder of Nothing Is Wasted Ministries, to talk about grief, suffering, and how to find purpose when life feels shattered. Davey shares the heart-wrenching story of losing his pregnant wife, Amanda, to a random act of violence, and how God met him in the valley of grief, shame, and unanswered questions.
This conversation goes deep—fast. Together, Ken and Davey wrestle with hard questions men often face in silence:
Davey’s story is not just about loss—it’s about the resilience God builds through suffering, the healing found in community, and the call to step back into mission even when it hurts.
If you’ve ever felt abandoned by God or struggled to believe He’s still good in the face of suffering, this episode will give you hope and perspective.
00:00 – Introduction to Davey Blackburn
01:20 – The tragic day that changed everything
06:40 – Wrestling with guilt, shame, and the “what ifs”
13:30 – Learning to see God’s providence in the details
19:00 – Asking the better question: “Where were You, God?”
25:00 – Moving from pain to purpose
31:00 – Launching Nothing Is Wasted
37:00 – Responding to cultural tragedy with compassion and truth
44:00 – Choosing restoration over revenge
49:00 – Practical encouragement for men walking through suffering
51:30 – How to connect with Davey and Nothing Is Wasted
👉 Website: nothingiswasted.com
👉 Podcast: Nothing Is Wasted Podcast
👉 Coaching & Courses: Pain to Purpose
