If you've ever felt overwhelmed by all the advice about what you "should" be doing to keep your relationship hot and healthy as you age, you're not alone.
In this fiery and refreshingly real episode, Amanda Testa shares why you actually can "half-ass" your way into better intimacy—and why tiny, consistent shifts often create far more connection than trying to Type-A your way into a perfect sex life.
Amanda dives into the unrealistic pressures midlife women face (hello, anti-aging ads everywhere!), why perfectionism is the death of turn-on, and how to start rebuilding emotional and erotic connection even when resentment, busyness, and awkwardness have taken over.
Because when love is still there?
You don't need to blow up your relationship.
You just need a new approach—one that's imperfect, real, and doable right now.
Why you can't "Type A" your way to better sex (and what actually works instead)
How to make micro-shifts that heal resentment and reignite intimacy
A simple mindset shift that instantly improves the emotional atmosphere in your relationship
How to use easy non cheesy connection rituals to bring warmth, playfulness, and touch back into your daily life
Why giving yourself permission for awkward, messy, imperfect sex can be the gateway to true reconnection
The power of celebrating small wins instead of fixating on what's missing
Feel closer to your partner again (without needing a 10-day retreat to Italy)
Rekindle your sexual confidence (even if it's been a while)
And finally feel like you're BOTH feet in (instead of one foot out emotionally)...
Then this episode is the reminder you've been waiting for.
You don't have to be perfect to create magic.
You just have to be willing.
Ready to feel alive, connected, and deeply turned on again?
Let's explore what's possible together. Book your complimentary call here.
