The age old question - Do women know what they want? Can you ask a woman for a rubric on how to woo her and then follow it like a law book? The rules of attraction are complicated and there is stiff competition to win in the sexual and mating marketplace. So - what do we want?
The answer is simply NOT what we think or say we want. As wild as this may seem, and as many women as there are to deny this very obvious fact -- there's tons of evidence to support it. There is simply an unconscious drive guiding our mating behaviors. We may think we want a showering of verbal affection, we may think we want acts of servitude or to be placed on pedestals-- but the simple fact is that the men who have the most access to women ARE NOT doing that.
While the "bad boy" archetype may be a preverse of the true masculine energy needed-- women are attracted to men who have their own life and world to tend to. Being a man's sole focus and goal is biologically unattractive. Mate seeking behaviors are women's domain- men are supposed to necessarily choose to seek resources.
Are you honoring your biology in mate selection?
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