On today's show I attempt to flesh through the problem with dating very young, barely legal women. My target age group is 18-20 but I suppose those are not firm numbers and there are definite exceptions to my rule. However, as a group- I feel It is best that men in their thirties avoid taking the responsibility of young women on due to their lack of maturity.
Are age gaps really the problem in relationships? Absolutely not. Many women find the love of a man who is older to feel very secure and comforting. There is an undeniable sexual attraction between a young and fertile woman to a man with the status to build a life and home. He wants to choose a wife with the best chances for reproduction and she wants the best outcomes for her kids.
That doesn't negate the fact that taking on a very young woman and leading her into commitment as an older man comes with some very serious potential consequences. Maidens will all wake up (either before or after bearing children) to the fact that their relationship experience is majorly lacking. A woman may overlook or feel careless about it, but often resentment bubbles up and divorce is primarily sought by women.
Are men miscalculating what a healthy grown woman really is? Can it be calibrated to be exactly 18? Are there other metrics like maturity that should have to exist in the contract of marriage? That'swhy being under the influence makes a contract invalid- folks are supposed to be of sound mind.
What say you, listener?
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