In today's episode, I'm continuing my discussion about rebuilding our relationship with my husband Aaron Dutcher. Our main focus is about shifting perspectives, looking for positives, and embracing the God-given gift of agency.
Whenever you tell people that you got divorced, or that you got married again, the focus is always on the negative. Both of these things are seen as failures when they should be seen as positives. The tendency to focus on the negative should be shifted. Come from a place of love and abundance, and look at where you are, knowing it is where you are meant to be.
The same thing is often said of getting married young. The simple fact is, it has no positive or negative, it just is. Look at things as just simple truths. Wedding vows are for better or worse, there are no exceptions.
No one ever said it would be easy, nor should it be. The question is, can it be overcome? What do you choose? There is a phrase, 'choose your love and love your choice.' That reminds us that choice is one of the greatest spiritual gifts you can receive. Remember that God has granted us agency.
It takes work on both sides to rebuild. It is a process, and you must continue to choose the choices you have made. It is a commitment and it isn't always going to be sunshine and rainbows, but it can help you build a solid foundation.
Learn to be comfortable with yourself and honor the choices of others. Differences don't divide you and fear doesn't rule you.
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