Description

A variety of women answer whether or not they enjoy giving oral sex; host Leah goes more in-depth about her own personal experiences and preferences, and about how to engage in, negotiate, and enjoy the act. Then, the discussion turns to navigating a polyamorous relationship for someone new to the practice.

Beware of performative standards (what you see in porn), and always feel free to negotiate the specifics of a sex act according to what is both comfortable and pleasurable for you—like, if you have a sensitive gag reflex, or don't want ejaculate in your mouth. And on the flip side, positive feedback is important!

• Leah shares how her recent move with her partner into a two-bedroom apartment gives them the option to sleep solo, and why this is a good thing for the relationship and not a sign of deprivation or trouble.
• "Do you enjoy giving oral sex?" – the women answer.
• Leah answers: "I'm a bit agnostic about genitals."
• Leah talks about her refusal to swallow ejaculate, and how she and her partner innovated around it.
• Her current partner communicates what he wants and likes, and guides her with positive feedback to hone in on what feels best that also feels good to her to provide.
• Leah discusses the myth of the home field advantage in oral sex.
• Am I Normal? – "Am I crazy to believe I might be ok with her sleeping with other people?"

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EPISODE CREDITS:

Host / Producer – Leah Carey (email)
Audio Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Administrative Support - Lara O'Connor, Maria Franco

Transcript creation – Jan Acielo
Music – Nazar Rybak