Description

Han and Matt tackle questions from some of their favorite advice sources from the week of June 3rd, 2018, and beyond, including:

1. Captain Awkward: "Dudebro won't stop bugging me about another dudebro. I JUST WANNA DO MY JOB."
2. Ask APW: "What Can I Do About A Partner Who Isn't Excited To Marry Me?"
3. Carolyn Hax: "Mocking Yourself Isn't an Invitation for Others to Pile On"
4. Dear Fuck-Up: "I Don't Think My Friend's Chronic Illness Is Real"
   • Washington Post: "Dangerous unproven treatments for 'chronic Lyme disease' are on the rise"
5. Shout-Out to Ask a Manager: "My Coworkers Keep Trying to Find out What My Chronic Illness Is"
6. Ask a Manager: "Someone Spends an Hour a Day Putting on Makeup in Our Shared Bathroom"
7. NOTE: Content Warning (Suicide and Domestic Abuse) from 37.01 through 54.04)
8. Listener The Anonymous One: "My Online Friend Might Need Mental Health Intervention And I Don't Know What To Do"
9. Listener Machete Alice Has Additional Advice About Group Therapy Confidentially Breach
   • Reference: Han and Matt Know It All - Episode 73
   • Listener Ila Seledria, Adrenaline Seeker: "Should I Address My Friend Who Might Be Violating Therapy Confidentiality on Social Media?"
10. Listener Desdemona & Another Reminder That Your Partner Threatening Suicide If You Leave Them Is Unconscionable and Not Your Fault
    • Reference: Han and Matt Know It All - Episode 73
    • Listener Kalvarin Ashmor, Renowned Euphomancer: "Our Friends Need Serious Help, But What More Can We Do For Them?"
11. Listener Clogger Has Words and Resources for LGBTQ Survivors in Abusive Relationships
    • LGBTQ Abusive Relationship Infographics
12. Listener Bianca Has a Book They Recommend for Those Of Us Who Know Women in Abusive Relationships
    • "To be an Anchor in the Storm: A Guide for Families and Friends of Abused Women" by Susan Brewster
13. Advice Column Alert: "Find Your Fit" on Autostraddle
    • Read the latest "Find Your Fit"
14. Advice Column Alert: "Tough Love" on Outside Online
    • "When Your Dog Cramps Your, Ahem, Bedroom Activities"
15. Shoutout to Tough Love: "What to Do When Your Husband Is More Into Gaming Than Sex"
16. Advice Column Alert: "Ask Real Estate" on NYT
    • "How I Answer Readers' Peskiest Apartment Questions"
17. Shoutout to Dear Abby's $5,000 College Columnist Scholarship contest
18. Shoutout to Asking for a Friend: "I Think My Friend Is a Jordan Peterson Fan. What Should I Do?"
19. Shoutout to Ask a Manager, Who Is Now On BBC Radio!

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