Description

Erasing the Map: How to Unlearn Your Deepest Fears with Listener Michelle.  Reframing solo travel, generational fear, and the superpower of unlearning.

We all walk around carrying maps we didn't draw. From the moment we are born, we absorb stories about what is safe, what is dangerous, what paths are open to us, and which ones are strictly off-limits. For Latina professionals, especially first-generation trailblazers, these maps are often drawn with heavy borders of caution, scarcity, and inherited fear. You might feel a deep pull to expand your life, your career, or your perspective, but something heavy is holding you back.

In this episode, we meet Michelle, a listener who grew up in Colombia in the 90s, believing the world was wildly out of reach. Fast forward 25 years, and she has traveled to 100 countries, 65 of them solo. Michelle is not just a world traveler; she is an expert in the art of dismantling inherited fear.

Today, we are talking about the most powerful skill Michelle learned on her journey: unlearning. Whether you are navigating corporate spaces, starting a business, or just trying to exist outside of the stereotypes handed to you, you will learn the exact three-step blueprint for taking off the lenses you were given and seeing your potential with your own eyes.

"Travel was not teaching me to discover the world. Travel was teaching me to unlearn it. Unlearning became my true passport." — Michelle

Mentioned in this Episode

• Gabriel Garcia Marquez ("Gabo"): The Nobel Prize-winning Colombian author whose magical realism inspired Michelle's journey.
• 100 Years of Solitude: The iconic novel by Gabriel Garcia Marquez.
• Mexico City (Zócalo): The location of Michelle's first solo trip in 2001.

Key Takeaways

• Name the Inherited Map: Acknowledge the beliefs you hold about your potential, career, or the world that feel like givens rather than choices you made.
• Find Your Counter-Narrative: You just need one crack in the old story. Read a book, listen to a podcast, or talk to someone who successfully lives outside the narrative of fear.
• Practice the "Tea-by-Tea" Method: Transformation doesn't require a grand leap. Have a coffee with a coworker you don't understand, or try food from a culture you were taught to be wary of.
• Use Unlearning as a Leadership Strategy: Challenge standard operating procedures and biases in your workplace to create room for real human connection.