Did you know there is a formula for love stories and we're all living in one? If you haven't gotten to the part where love casts out your fears, your story's not over yet! That's good news! Even better...that's THE GOOD NEWS!
You're in the right place if -
- You've given up on living a love story. If you were brutally honest, you don't even want a love story anymore. You've found a comfortable rut on the road of self-reliance and you've decided connecting with people is too complicated.
- You're afraid of a love story. You've risked loving other people more than once and it didn't end well. Letting others love you hasn't worked so well either. Fear is telling you that love is too risky and you've agreed with fear long enough to get comfortable living afraid.
- You're hungry for a love story - or at least a true story. Some parts of your story are so propped up with self-protection and self-promotion that you wonder if it might be easier to simply show up honestly in your story instead of hidden. You're curious about living in a secure story instead of an anxious one.
Listen in as Doug and Janet share both the formula for love stories and the great hope we have when life gets difficult. Every time we get to a place of suffering in our stories, we're invited to participate with Love, not fear. Our children do, too. We can help them build a secure story they don't have to rebuild when they're not kids anymore.
Share this episode with a friend who needs the truths in these TAKEAWAYS:
- Many times in a crisis, having our felt needs met often opens our hearts to the truth that meets our real needs. That's one reason why we need people in our stories who know us well. They'll not rush in to insist we look too fast at the new path that will lead us out of the crisis. Instead, they'll remind us who God says we are by simply being with us and reminding us we are valuable, no matter what chapter we're on in our love stories.
- Jesus didn't say, "Come to me all who are crushing it, living your best life, and I will give you rest." He said, "Come to me all who are weary, and I will give you rest." Jesus knows where you are in your story. He's not freaked out by your progressive complications. The gospel is proof that He wants to hold your hand on a new road.
- So many times, we freak out about our problems. God knows freaking out only makes our problems worse because fear never puts us on the same road that the truth will point us to. That's why God is the safest place to run to when we're afraid because we're struggling. Having a safe place meets a vital felt need, and God's truth meets a real need, too. Many times, a miracle comes next.
Together, there is great hope.
