In season five, we're having conversations about the atmosphere we breathe in, the rhythms we create, and the relationships and ideas we trust—and how different these things are when we live loved instead of living afraid.
You're in the right place if -
- You're ready to create a lifestyle for yourself that builds a context for transformation instead of a context for conforming to the patterns of this world.
- You're NOT ready to plant a flag in the land of losing, even though you're NOT winning right now–at least not in the way the world describes victory.
- You're recognizing that when you orient your life around a personal identity based on what you have, what you do, and what other people think of you - you learn to navigate painful emotions in ways that write the next scenes of your life based on your pain instead of based on God's presence in your pain.
In this episode, we're discovering that the place of grief is often where we discover our hearts' longings and our real values. Pain wants us to listen to fear instead of Love, but gratitude—not for the pain but for God's presence with us in the pain—is an antidote to fear.
If you're experiencing grief in this chapter of your story, join Janet and Doug on this episode and linger in these TAKEAWAYS:
- Ebenezer is a Hebrew word that means "stone of help." It has become synonymous with the idea of God reaching down to lend a helping hand to those most in need. In the Kingdom of God, we can set an Ebenezer stone in the parts of our story where things are not good because something's missing–or because someone is missing. The stone can be a reminder of what we found in our grief that was heavy with value, not simply heavy with pain.
- GRATITUDE is a CONFESSION of trust in God's goodness. It is a way of moving from our sympathetic nervous system to our parasympathetic nervous system and holding God's hand as He leads us to the playground of our mind.
- GENEROSITY is the fruit of living loved instead of afraid.
In the Kingdom of God, we have the benefit of not being our own experts. There is an order to things. Wisdom takes the lead. We get to follow. And we get to choose who we follow - who influences us.
In this episode, Janet says, "Most of the conversations we have in our marriage are about something we're reading, listening to, or noticing in the lives of people we trust to lead us. We share wisdom from these friends and influencers in this episode:
