1) Attached to outcomes that haven't happened
2) Being in control
3) Codependent - Enabling - Over Obligating
4) Worried all the time
5) Present moment awareness
6) Meeting people where they are
7) Letting people be responsible
8) Worry, obsessing, and controlling, are illusions
9) Detach in peace
10) Detachment is a learned skill
11) Recovery is not being selfish
12) Letting go
