Welcome back to Leadership in a Nutshell with Kenny Chapman, Episode 126! Have you ever talked yourself into failure? Most would have denied this but subconsciously most may be running a program that is utilizing words that are talking themselves into it, take time to pause and listen to this episode as this will change your life.
Highlights:
[00:05 - 06:56] Are You Talking Yourself Into Death?
- The key to having a successful relationship is having a value proposition that is specific to the relationship.
- Lifetime relationships can be transformative but are not always chosen.
- Transactional relationships are beneficial, but they eventually run their course.
- A transformational relationship is one where both parties are evolving and sharing what they're learning together.
[06:56 - 13:08] Things to Avoid
- People often talk themselves into failure, poverty, and pain.
- To avoid this, it is important to be aware of the words that you use and to check them against your goals.
- This can be done by being honest with yourself and checking your thoughts against your goals.
[13:08 - 23:40] Are You Running Around Like A Chicken With Your Head Cut Off?
- Be mindful of how busy, important, and crazy things are for you right now and how this can lead to self-talk death.
- Check-in with yourself regularly to make sure you're not talking yourself to death.
- Have a plan for how you want your life to be and stick to it.
- Believe that what you're saying is true and that it's possible to have a great year even if things are tough at first.
- Heighten your awareness
- Just listen to what you are saying
- Release it quickly when you do say something that doesn't resonate with you.
[23:41 - 24:25]Closing Segment
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"Everything in your life has to do with your words because words are beliefs." - Kenny Chapman
