Angela discusses how to live your best life by identifying and committing to your core values. She emphasizes the importance of clarity, communication, and commitment in aligning your decisions with your values. The episode provides a framework for listeners to define their core values and integrate them into their daily lives and financial planning.
Key Takeaways 💡
- Living life on purpose: Many people go through life fulfilling obligations and desires without truly understanding why they are doing what they do, or whether it aligns with their overall direction. It's important to intentionally plan and work towards a life that reflects personal values and goals, rather than simply going through the motions. Gratitude is often found when people feel they are living their best life and treasuring their moments.
- The problem with generic advice: People often receive conflicting advice from various professionals like accountants, bankers, insurance agents, and financial advisors, without a cohesive plan for their best life. To live your best life, you need to figure out what that means to you, which involves identifying the people you treasure, the things you love to do, and the memories you want to create. However, these thoughts are just components of your best life, not necessarily how you achieve it.
- Clarity through core values: To live your best life, you need clarity, which starts with identifying your core values. While many people have values, they may not be able to articulate their top three or use them to guide their decisions. Core values should be the foundation for every decision you make, including financial decisions, and should guide your life instead of living on a whim or following societal expectations.
- Questions to find core values: To identify your core values, reflect on these questions: What is important to you? How do you define success? If this were your last hour on earth, what do you not want to regret, and what would a life well-lived look like? What were your most cherished moments? How do you want to be remembered? Answering these questions will help you identify your core values, which you should narrow down to three to five to memorize and keep front and center.
- Communicate your core values: Communicate your core values to your family so they understand the principles guiding your decisions. If married, couples should identify core values together to ensure they are aligned, especially when making life decisions. Share your core values with your children and grandchildren to pass on a legacy of wisdom and guide their decisions.
- Commit to your core values: Commitment is essential to living by your core values; without it, all the hard work of identifying them is wasted. Many goals and resolutions fail because they lack roots and heart. Commit to defining and living by your core values, making them the foundation for everything you do, starting today.
