You set a number for yourself a long time ago. You meant it. You told yourself, when I cross this line, I will know I am ok.
You crossed it. But you do not feel ok.
You are not poor. Not even close. But you still cannot sit still.
There is a story behind the thing that keeps driving you, and that story was handed to you before you were old enough to question it. It told you your worth was something countable. It taught you to measure yourself by your output, and to measure the people you care about by their output. So they measured you back.
This episode walks you through where the story came from, what it has been doing to your nervous system, and why no further amount of money will turn it off.
Listen before the next twenty years cost you even more of what the last twenty already did.
Show Highlights Include:
The insidious "3 M Story" that was sold to you before you could read that's behind your inability to sit still after achieving your goals (0:37)
The "Tyranny of Merit" idea coined by a Harvard philosopher that can help you "get" why winning in life leaves you empty (2:46)
How to better understand your nervous system so you can be its ally instead of its enemy (5:19)
2 brutal truths that indicate your nervous system is running a toxic pattern when you reach your goals (7:20)
Why you only seem to attract romantic partners who seem like they pick you because of your material success instead of genuine connection (8:55)
What to do after realizing you've spent 15 years of your life for 45 minutes of relief to unlock a new sense of deep peace (14:33)
A new take on The Parable of the Talents from the Gospel of Matthew that might help your nervous system let go of deep-seated fear (even if you're not religious) (15:28)
The "3 Blades" of the toxic pattern that secretly runs the most successful people (and how noticing these blades empowers you to pick a new pattern) (19:16)
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