We all love a good glow up.
In this episode of 20s Confidential, we break down the two sides of a glow up: the physical and the intrinsic. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to look good, feel confident in your appearance, and enjoy the external parts of a glow up. Physical discipline, routines, and taking care of yourself can be powerful and motivating when they come from the right place.
But the truth is, a real glow up doesn’t start on the outside. It starts on the inside.
We talk about why focusing on aesthetics alone will never feel like enough, how glow ups become toxic when they’re driven by self-criticism or external validation, and why looking better doesn’t automatically mean feeling better. Because correlation doesn’t equal causation, and you can have your “dream look” and still feel misaligned.
Then we dive into the intrinsic glow up: upgrading your standards, setting boundaries, building self-discipline, and redefining self-love as action...not just a feeling. The fact is, it all comes down to self-love. You can’t hate yourself into loving yourself. The physical glow up may be visible, but the internal work is what actually sustains it.
If you’re heading into a new season craving a glow up, this episode reframes it through grounded self-respect, long-term thinking, and becoming the version of yourself that feels aligned, inside and out.
Here’s to glowing, growing, and embracing the chaos of our 20s.
