There’s a common message floating around the entrepreneurial space: “You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with, so cut out anyone who’s not helping you grow.”
I don’t buy it.
In this weekly ramble, I break down why I believe some of the most valuable people in your life may have nothing to do with your business but everything to do with your heart, identity, and sanity. These are the friends who were there before the titles, before the growth, before the success and they’ll still be there when the spotlight dims.
If you’ve ever felt the pressure to “cut ties” just to rise higher, this episode is your reminder that you can build big without burning the people who built you.
Key Talking Points of the Episode
00:00 Introduction
01:42 Challenging the narrative: “Cut out your old friends to grow”
02:25 JJ’s Joke of the Week
03:11 The real value of long-term friendships
05:01 My friends are on completely different paths
07:02 Why I protect my inner circle and who gets in my bubble
08:40 What old friends do for your heart and mind
09:32 Weak-minded people need to cut ties
11:08 The annual Outer Banks trip: friendship > ROI
14:33 Friendship = fulfillment, not friction
17:29 Why I keep my core circle small
20:05 Never forget where you came from
23:08 Stop buying the myth: you’re not the sum of five people—you’re you
Quotables
“If I applied the logic of cutting people out who aren’t helping my growth, I’d lose every one of my best friends.”
“You can’t tell me that laughing around a campfire doesn’t add value to my life.”
“My biggest ROI? A weekend in the Outer Banks, belly laughing with guys I’ve known since high school.”
Links
608B Capital
