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In this episode, Lucas dives deep into a critical personal growth topic: emotional control. Sharing both personal stories from his MMA career and real estate journey, Lucas emphasizes how unchecked emotions can sabotage success, while mastering them can unlock growth.

💡 Key Message: You’ll never fully eliminate emotions — the goal isn’t perfection, it’s progress. Emotional control is the difference between winners and those who fall short.

🔥 Real Talk:

• Story #1: Early in his real estate career, Lucas let his ego flare up during a negotiation. His emotions got the better of him, and the deal fell apart.
• Story #2: In his first MMA fight, Lucas was seconds away from victory, but his bottled-up emotions clouded his judgment. He made one emotional move and got choked out in the final 10 seconds. Lesson learned: emotions kill focus.

🧠 The 4-Step Emotional Control Process:

1. Awareness — Catch yourself in the moment when emotions flare up.
2. Perspective — Ask: Will this matter tomorrow, next year, five years from now? If not: “Let it go.”
3. Identity Check — Remind yourself: Am I reactive, or am I composed?
4. Truth Scan — Ask: Is this reaction coming from ego, insecurity, or something deeper? Growth starts here.

📜 Wisdom Drops:

• Stoicism:

“You have power over your mind — not outside events. Realize this and you will find strength.” — Marcus Aurelius “A man who is angry is a man who has forgotten reason.” — Seneca

• Biblical Insight:

“He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city.”

💎 Final Takeaway: Control your emotions, control your life. People, situations, and the world will test you — your greatness lies in how you respond, not react.